I’ve seen people argue that afabs can get top surgery, he/him pronouns, HRT exactly like a trans man, and bottom surgery and still identify as lesbians. I’ve seen a popular blog reblog things like that. People will tell me to my face that afabs can get top surgery, HRT, he/him pronouns, have gender dysphoria, and still be lesbians, still be cis. And I think something that people don’t understand is that a lot of trans men do not get bottom surgery. A lot of gay/bi trans men do not even want bottom surgery. It feels like I’m being erased out of existence. I feel like I can’t talk about this without massive pushback. Which is so fucking stupid. I am also only going to talk about this with trans people and I am not going to discuss this on anon.
Yea sure, of course cis people, AFAB or AMAB can start HRT and get surgery and all that.
And when HRT starts having physical effects and every bit of their body feels starts to feel disgusting and wrong because they’re not FUCKING TRANS, they’ll understand dysphoria and shut the fuck up about things they don’t understand.
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