I’ve seen people argue that afabs can get top surgery, he/him pronouns, HRT exactly like a trans man, and bottom surgery and still identify as lesbians. I’ve seen a popular blog reblog things like that. People will tell me to my face that afabs can get top surgery, HRT, he/him pronouns, have gender dysphoria, and still be lesbians, still be cis. And I think something that people don’t understand is that a lot of trans men do not get bottom surgery. A lot of gay/bi trans men do not even want bottom surgery. It feels like I’m being erased out of existence. I feel like I can’t talk about this without massive pushback. Which is so fucking stupid. I am also only going to talk about this with trans people and I am not going to discuss this on anon.